Porn’s Thai Cafe at Mt Faber SAFRA (imageless version)

I decided to eat at Porn’s Thai cafe at Mt Faber SAFRA after a hard tennis workout that day. Firstly, I would like to apologize for not taking any photo (maybe you will be relieved!). I free pretty silly taking photos with my 7″ Samsung tablet, that is why.

Anyway the cafe seems rather deserted on a Saturday lunch time. Only one more table was there when I walked in. Waitress’ service was okay; my main complain however is that she hasn’t learn the Thai pronunciation of any of the food that their restaurant serves.  Its not a big deal for most people, I am just anal about stuff like that. The other waiter looks grouchy throughout my time there, occasionally texting with his phone (the cafe is REALLY empty) and the cashier looked even more bored. But all of them did give a nice smile when I finished with my meal and walked out of the cafe.

Instead of the regular Tom Yum Goong  (Tom Yum prawn), Gaeng Kieow Wan Gai (green curry chicken) and Yum Ma Muang (mango salad) that I saw more of the food blogs have ordered, I decided to try something else. I ordered Som Tum (papaya salad), Tom Kha Gai (coconut galangal soup with chicken) and Pek Gai Yat Sai (stuff chicked wings).

Som Tum:

Its  a general notice that most Singaporeans order mango salad instead of papaya salad when gong Thai. However, the papaya salad is ubiquitous with Thai food and it the most defining dish of any Thai restaurant. Screw that up, you can forget about the rest of the food. The most important point about the papaya salad is that the raw papaya is rather tasteless by itself (unlike raw mango which is sour).

The dressing is coated around the papaya and hence its becomes very important to have well-balanced dressing. I am happy to say that the Som Tum is pretty good. The dressing has a good balance of sourness from the lime juice, just spicy enough (this is not an Isaan restaurant so its okay not to be so spicy), sweetness from the palm sugar and saltiness and fragrance from the fish sauce. My only complain is that the papaya was a bit soggy. This is because it was machine cut rather than hand cut with all the uneven size. The hand cut papaya tends to stay crunchy longer. Also I wished that they had added some dried shrimps to perk up the dish. Overall, its a dish that I will order again.

Tom Kha Gai:

Even in Bangkok, it is not very easy to get a good Tom Kha Gai, let alone in Singapore. This is the reason that I ordered this dish, instead of Tom Yum Goong. Unknown to most people the herbs used are actually similar, except there is coconut milk and more galangal in Tom Kha Gai. Few people do a good Tom Kha Gai and I am glad to say that this restaurant does a good one.

The coconut milk was rich and just thick enough and not too watery. The soup has a good blend of sweetness (absolutely important), spiciness, sourness (very important) and fragrance from the herbs. You can drink the soup by itself without filling too bloated and sick of the coconut milk. My only complain is that I wished they had used fresh straw mushrooms because I could taste the “can-ness” of the straw mushroom they used in the soup. Other than that, its a dish I recommend that you try in place of Tom Yum Goong.

Pek Gai Yat Sai:

I just love fried chicken wings, what’s more stuff fried chicken wings. I must say that the restaurant did a rather good rendition of this dish. Some restaurant will have too much vermicelli, but they stuff it with lots of meat. What’s more, they also stuff it with chestnut. However, I did find the chicken wings, plus the stuffing, a tad bit too bland and dry. However, with the saving grace of the thai sweet chilli on any dish, its something that you can eat a as snack while you wait for you food.

 

Overall:

I don’t mind going back again to try other stuff.

Poj Spa Karn, Tanao Road, Bangkok

Okay, phonetically, Poj Spa Karn should be “Pot Sapaa Kaarn”. From what I read from the internet, this is an 82 year old restaurant, situated along Tanao Road in Bangkok. Interestingly, as we walk along Tanao Road, we find many stalls which review cuttings. This is an old part of town and I am not surprise if that it host such a variety of good food with food shop owners been around for some time.

Now just like an 82 year old restaurant, when San tried to call for reservation on a Sunday, we were informed that the Auntie (I think she is in charge) has gone to the hospital for some checkout and the restaurant will only open after she comes back, without giving any further timing. Well, we took a bet that she will be back in time for us and sure enough when we reached there, it was opened and we are the first customers. (more…)

Cafe Chilli at Paragon, Bangkok

Cafe Chilli is a north-eastern Thai food restaurant situated at the basement of Paragon in Bangkok, where most of the restaurants are. Although it says north-eastern, it really a fusion high class north-eastern food. In all honesty, most of us probably don’t really like authentic north-eastern or Issan food, because they can be really spicy and salty. However, despite this fusion stuff going on, its true to Thai tastes and flavors. The portions are pretty small, so for two of us, we actually ended order quite a number of dishes. (more…)

Suntawa Restaurant at Soi Piphat, Bangkok

Update: I have learned that the restarant has moved. Some say Rama III some say Rama IV, I still have no idea where. If you know, ping me. Thanks!

Now, Silom Road in Bangkok is not well known to have good Thai restaurants. Most of the Thai cafes and even restaurant have adjusted their food taste to cater to the mainly white tourists visiting there, which tastes like sweet crap. One of my criteria to even enter a restaurant is whether its full of foreigners or gay men or if its mostly locals. I am digressing…

Anyway, Suntawa restaurant is a rare gem fine along Silom road. Actually another good restaurant is Banana Leaf at the basement of Silom Complex. According to San, it is a pretty old restaurant, at least 20+ years.  you can even see that the restaurant’s decor is still the same since its open.

Now, its pretty hard to notice the restaurant, even if you walked pass it. Also the name is not in English, so you have to learn to recognize the sign board in the picture above! (more…)

Fahrenheit Suites, Kuala Lumpur

I decided to stay one night at Fahrenheit Suites at Kuala Lumpur as there was a 50% discount off, being newly launched at SGD $120. This is the same building where KL Plaza was, now refurbished as Fahrenheit 88 (opposite Pavilion) at Bt Bintang in KL. I thought it would be a suite like those of Dorsett, but it was more like an apartment suite. It is actually a convert apartment used to be called KL Courts. There are still some renovation going on, so don’t expect a pose entrance to a “suite”. It more like visiting your mom apartment in KL.

Actually for one person, the place is pretty huge! So if you are one of those who afraid of big empty houses at night, I don’t recommend trying to stay there. Its a bit weird because they had to turn a normal 2 bedroom apartment into a one bedroom suite, so you will notice that another bathroom and bedroom is locked. For those with wilder imagination by oneself, you will start wonder what lies behind those doors! (more…)

Really Random Thoughts on Elections 2011

Many people would think that given the size of the people attending the opposition rallies and online chatter against PAP and for the opposition, this coming election will be a big win for them. On the contrary, as we have seen in the previous elections, this may not be true. The good news this year is that there are probably even more people who may be supporting the opposition and even more people willing to voice their opposition. The opposition may not win big this year, but given the trend and giving it 10 to 20 years, we will surely see even more qualified candidates joining opposition parties and even more voters swinging their votes over to the opposition. Things may not happen this year, but wheel are set in motion and change will come if we are patience enough.

The problem with PAP dominance is that barriers to entry are made very high for the opposition. Election boundaries are constantly redrawn to shift voting patterns in favor of the PAP. Community centers under the People’s Association are used to ferry uncles and aunties with free food to attend PAP rallies and I thought they are supposed to be non-partisan? Broadcast and print media are servants to the PAP, not to investigate what is facts, but to tell Singaporeans want PAP wants them to know. The police, security forces and judiciary, by virtue of the laws bulldozed by PAP in the parliament, are but loyalists of the PAP, used by them to spread fear and to control and maintain power. Civil servants, whether they like PAP or not, will probably have to vote for PAP, mostly really out of fear.

Then there are votes who vote out of fear and lack of empathy and indifference.

Fear because they fear voting in the opposition will make things more difficult for them in the estate. Their estate prices may drop subsequently and new amenities for their estate will take a back seat in favor of PAP wards. Some fear that if they voted for the opposition and if the PAP won, their names will be noted and getting any help from the PAP after that may prove to be difficult. This is the reasons why the PAP is playing the fear and regret card in the news media. They know a lot of citizens responds to these messages well and will not dare to make the wrong move. The same fear card was used by Vivian on the gay issue, in order to secure votes from the anti-gay voters in his constituency, probably right wing fundamentalist religious people.

For those who are indifferent or lacks empathy, its probably harder to convince them otherwise. These people have a good quality of life for themselves and their families. They want everything to remain the same after the elections so that they can continue to have their maids and occasional holidays. To them, as long as their life have no major upsets, there are no causes to fight for. They don’t care to know about civil rights or don’t have any idea or don’t care why people are jailed by ISA. They think that over time PAP will make those changes or accommodations and there is no need to fight against PAP for it.

The same mentality gets some gay people over the call to abolish the penal code 377a. Some, have their partners, build their little nest and go about their usual daily routines. Others are happy to have their parties, sex and drugs. They don’t want anyone upsetting their way of life by calling for the repeal and upsetting the government with a backlash. They believe that the government will abolish that in time to come. Upsetting them too early will compromise their current contented way of life. And so they prefer that nobody fights for gay equality and upsets the government and leave it to them to work on it as a when they pleases.

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Many people harp on the Mas Selamat incident, with the focus on the toilet escape. It makes sense, of course, but for me this is missed by a mile.  For me, the incident should be more about the accountability of the Internal Security Acts.  Whether Mas Selamat is a terrorist or not, I strongly believe that he should be given a fair trial in an unbiased hearing. Being in ISA custody, was he given a fair trial and hearing, was he tortured? Could he be a political dissenter rather than a would-be terrorist? We are all already aware of how ISA has been used by the government to subvert challenges to their power, even the average person on the street have an irrational fear that if they talk too loud against the government, they may need to have a kopi session the next day. Mind you this is not the PAP tea session. I constantly hear gay people talk about how they worry about their jobs being compromised or being monitored if they speak too loud for gay rights because of the fear of ISA. This is precisely why ISA needs to be abolished to be replaced by a structure more accountable to the people and not subject to the abuse of power by the PAP. The ISA just gives PAP too much leeway to abuse their power without proper checks and balances and it must go.

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Coming to the gay issue, its a good thing to know that in general most people don’t really care if an MP is gay or not. Does that mean a gay MP will take about nothing but a gay cause? Does that mean a Muslim or Buddhist MP will talk about just their own religious cause? Or a woman MP will focus only on women’s issues? This is truly really fear mongering at its peak. But this does show to us how strongly the PAP team regarded the SDP team. Every time we see smear campaign coming from PAP, we know that its because they fear those that they smear. Already, we hear talks and rumors about potential drastic steps PAP are prepared to conjure up in order to destroy the SDP chances or credibility in contesting for the GRC. I have no idea what that maybe or if they will indeed carry that out, we can only wait and see.  Given that PAP have full control of the police forces and security forces, i.e. spying on citizen, it is not hard to think of the kind of information they can gather to make this possible.

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I know we are all frustrated by the sight of so many foreigners in Singapore and about job security, however, please don’t use them as the bogeyman or make a joke out of them. They are flesh and blood people who works hard for their own livelihood and family and don’t deserves us screaming for them to get out or us joking about them. The focus should be on the issues of our policies and how it impacted Singaporeans and what we can do improve the situation.

Also, one thing we must remember is that these so called foreign talents are really a huge and diverse group. The frustration are not necessary the same and they are not all necessary taking away jobs from Singaporeans. I suspect the most visible groups and those that some of us are frustrated about are the lower skills foreigners. However, we sometimes need to ask ourselves, how many Singaporeans want to do those jobs that they are doing? I wonder even if with a minimal wage scheme and with policies to encourage employers to hire Singaporeans first for those jobs, how many really want to be a house maid, road sweeper, rubbish collector or construction worker? If anything, we should thank them for building the houses we live in, keep our estate clean and taking care of your children or old folks when you are too busy earning for a living.

As for jobs that so-called went the way of the foreigners, honestly I have no idea what people are talking about. Not that it is non-existence, but for people in different industry, this may be either a perceived or actual problem.  Taking my own experience in the IT industry interviewing people for some IT positions. I found that the general quality of Singaporean candidates to be not as good as compare to their foreign counterparts interviewing for the same jobs. Some could not articulate their thoughts properly or show enthusiasm or passion for the the industry that they are in and worst of all the one-question-one-answer interviewee. It can be quite frustrating having to face such candidates and so don’t blame me for not recommended any Singaporeans for those positions and giving them away to better foreign candidates.

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Whether or not, this is a watershed election, in the future, I want a Singapore where gay and transgender people are free from fear of being themselves,  where they get equal opportunities to work and social help without having to hide or be ashamed of themselves and where the media are allow to portrait positive images, movies and articles of gay and transgender folks.

I want a Singapore where citizens are free from fear of speaking out in public, where lawyers can comment on the law, where news media actually carry real news about Singapore, where ISA and 377a are abolished, where all detainees of the ISA and those exiled are given a fair hearing and fair compensation if they were wrongly accused, where the RCs and CCs are not beholden to the PAP but to its citizens and where those we really need our help or have fallen into the cracks are help by the government to bring their lives back in order, where population is not increase just to catch up with GDP growth and finally, a Singapore where I can truly be able to say it is my country and not one that PAP allowed me to be in.

The (watch)men in white

Among those of us who were more active in gay rights in Singapore in the earlier days, we used to joke about how we could always ask the internal security dept (ISD) for our emails if they ever got lost or deleted. It was somehow a known assumption then that the government has been monitoring our activities and correspondences. Moles and attempted infiltration to keep the government aware of what is going on is probably a common theme. We, of course, know that whenever that is a large gathering, clueless plainclothes polices were sent to spy on us, often being singled out very quickly or having to endure long talks about gay sex (perhaps) or relationship or worst still gay poetry and art!

One of the joke in the gay email list SiGNeL was that we should all sign off our postings with “LKY”. The purpose was so that every posting gets captured by the ISD and the poor intelligence people have to read through all of our postings to find out that it has nothing to do with “LKY” other than the signature. This will certain keep them very busy! Read the rest of this entry

The Dalai Lama, the Pope & monkly mistakes

One of the problem with the Westernised media, particularly coming from the Americas is that there is a strong tendency to apply their own world view of how things should be to the rest of the world. This is called ethnocentrisms. Thus it does not get any better when the American/Western media continuously portray the Dalai Lama like he is the sole authority of the Buddhist world, the equivalent of the pope in Catholicism. Of course, the popularity of the Dalai Lama have, in part, a lot to do with the fact that Tibet was taken over by China, and there are good political agenda and interests to use that fact against China, by some government agencies to negotiable deals and force China to obey Western rules. So sometimes it hard to tell when the Dalai Lama is a Western government’s tool of against China or when its really for the concern of the people in Tibet. Read the rest of this entry

Is the four-faced buddha, a buddha?

A quick answer: No and probably nothing to do with Buddhism or Buddhist teachings.

How did the “four-faced buddha”, so popular amongst some Singaporeans (and Thais, needless to say) who goes religiously to Erawan Shrine in Bangkok to “pay back wishes” and to worship, become confused with “a buddha”.

Firstly, when I say buddha (in small), I am talking about a being who is enlightened, full of wisdom, and had escaped the cycle of rebirth according to Buddhist teachings. Whereas the “Buddha” is the founding teacher of Buddhism. More importantly, a buddha:

  • does not require your worshiping (he/she is not a god)
  • does not grant you wishes, no matter how much you pray or offer
  • does not require you to please him/her nor to return any promise for wishes you think you were granted
  • he/she does not get angry, punish you, gets pissed off for offending him or not keeping your promise or not paying respect to him/her
  • most important we don’t fear a buddha for one is loving, kind, compassion, joyful and generous.

If anyone describes a buddha with these characteristics, he/she is describing a petty deity, not a buddha or the Buddha. Read the rest of this entry

Why can’t R-21 films be screened in HDB heartland cinemas?

The recent news about why R-21 films in the HDB heartland really goes to show what happens when people stop using their brains.

Want do we mean that society is not ready to have R-21 films close to home? If R-21 films are such bad influences shouldn’t they be simply banned in the first place? Who do the people think can watch R-21 films? 13/14 year old kids? Aren’t these films restricted to minors?

Also such a survey speaks nothing about misinformation or prejudice of the respondents. If you ask the same audience if they agree to allow foreign construction/migrant workers to rent their rooms or rent a flat next door to them, you may see the same or even more percentage not wanting this to happen. Does that mean that our ministry should prevent any of the workers from staying in HDB heartlands?

If 21 year old boys can be serve in the army to learn to kill an enemy, hold a gun, throw a grenade, fire a tank and command a company of men, what can R-21 films do that the army have not taught?

If having R-21 films at the heartland can be sure a bad influence,shouldn’t we banned cigarettes, alcohol and gambling at heartlands too? How many of us have seen 16/17 year old kids smoking, drinking and gambling around HDB towns? Aren’t these bad influences for kids? So why are these parents not asking for a ban of these from HDB heartlands also? What more, even though these have restricted  sales to minors, many can still get their hands on them through their older friends. Going to a cinema, on the other hand, is different because there is a gatekeeper at the door.

Furthermore if those kids want to get more sexually explicit or vulgar or violent contents, they can easily get those from the internet. Why need to pay $10 to watch some dumb censored films with nothing to see?

 

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